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、　起跑点vs长远的目标

　　华人**的教育都很强调“不要输在起跑点”，却很少强调“追寻长远的目标”。如果标准学制是国中学英文，家长就急忙送小学生去英文补习班；如果小一开始学九九乘法表，那幼稚园里就会出现背诵乘法表的声音。

　　现在想想，这不但短视，还有点投机的味道。这种策略隐含一个假设，人生就是百米短跑赛，你比别人先偷跑个几秒，当然会先达到目标！但问题是，人生其实经历数十寒暑，更像长跑而非短跑。而且，每个人有属于自己的人生跑道，属于自己的生涯目标，我们是跟自己比，而不是跟别人比。

　　离开学校进入职场的前几年，我有机会与日本和德国人共事，更让我深深确信，“终点线”的设定能产生巨大影响。

　　当时一起参与国际专案时，**团队的目标就是准时完工并且赚钱，所以专案一开始，大家就抢快开工，想尽办法让人员机具越早到位越好，**人的逻辑很简单，越早开始，越早完成。

　　但日本团队不同，开工数周，多数的工程师仍在办公室里进行规划、计算、与模拟。他们想一次性把事情做好，所以他们宁可多花时间在准备阶段，把每个步骤确认清楚，果然，**团队只有在前一两个月进度**，后面就因为不断改正、重工，导致进度落后。而日本团队一开始落后，却能稳扎稳打，后发而先至。

　　记得我刚学开车时，眼睛紧盯着马路上的标线，车子却总是开不直。后来老爸提醒我，开车时要望向远方的固定目标，若只盯着车头前方的标线，是一定开不直的！
. de Vilmorin stared blankly, uncomprehending.

“Had I been born a gentleman, do you say?” quoth he, in a slow, bewildered voice. “But I was born a gentleman. My race is as old, my blood as good as yours, monsieur.”

From M. le Marquis there was a slight play of eyebrows, a vague, indulgent smile. His dark, liquid eyes looked squarely into the face of M. de Vilmorin.

“You have been deceived in that, I fear.”

“Deceived?”

“Your sentiments betray the indiscretion of which madame your mother must have been guilty.”

The brutally affronting words were sped beyond recall, and the lips that had uttered them, coldly, as if they had been the merest commonplace, remained calm and faintly sneering.